Sad news

My family was all a twitter on the the account of a new baby arriving.. the only problem?  My sister who lives at home with my step mom was having said baby, it was a unplanned pregnancy, the boyfriend is an ass, and she never told my step mom. My sister told all of us girls, that she was pregnant,and when her boyfriend  refused to go to the first ultra sound I stepped in and offered to attend every appointment  and class, and agreed to be her birthing partner. At this point I really feel that she was going to tell her mom but it was an extremely  sad day as we found out she will not be having this baby.  What do you say to someone who just lost their future.. I'm sorry, I love you, at least you won't have to tell Mom. I  was stunned and not sure what to say. She was understandably  upset but she didn't cry or shout or do anything except carry on her partying ways. I still feel so badly for her. She is in pain and nothing can ease that kind of upset. I am at a loss of what to do for her but help her grieve and start a new. I am torn up as well and feel an overwhelming  depression  setting in.

Marriage, Honeymoon, and what happens after.

The Wedding was amazing! Hectic but amazing. I was ready when we left to go on our honeymoon. I will include a slide show or something so you can all see. For our honeymoon we went to Ireland, London, and New York. It was an amazing trip and a world wind. I was also very ready to come home when we were on our way back. I missed my kitties. I can't believe that I'm married now. To be honest  though, it really isn't all that everyone cracks it up to be. I mean we still live in the same house, we still sleep in the same bed, we do everything that we did when we were not married but now he can't get away without substantial paperwork.  There are perks we now share health insurance, we are signed on the same accounts, and my husband now gets a discount card for the place I work. Other than that I still haven't changed my name which is proving to be difficult. Some places care others don't but now that I have my certified copies I am working on trying to get it changed. Other than that we are trying to get into better shape, which means trying to eat healthier. If you want to find out more click on Shaping Up Our Lifestyle. Oh and in August we are going to Orlando and to Disney World for my birthday. I'm excited but there is so much to plan between now and then. More to come in the year ahead. I'll be sharing some about Shaping up as well as whats happening in daily life.